 
There's Always a Way to Create
Happiness
"I have
become my own version of an optimist. If I can't make it through one door,
I'll go through another door - or I'll make a door. Something terrific will
come no matter how dark the present."
- Rabindranath
Tagore
...Here
were these poor, sad-looking beggar children asking for rupees, however,
with my friend being a monk, it was not really appropriate for him to give
money to the children in that way. At the same time, the swami didn't feel
right just ignoring these children when they came to the car window. He was
much more used to playing and laughing with children than uncomfortably ignoring
them. I'm sure that anyone who has driven or walked through major cities
of any country must have experienced the discomfort of not knowing how to
respond to beggars on the road.
The swami had recently received a gift from his guru - a funny-looking cat
puppet that almost looked real. He had an idea. The next time they drove
through that part of town, Swamiji brought the cat puppet along. When one
of the kids came by his car to beg for change, Swamiji reached up with the
hand puppet on, and grabbed the child's arm. The child looked at the strange
creature, squealed, and ran away.
At first, Swamiji was concerned that he had scared the child off, but soon
the boy returned with the rest of the children. They all wanted to see the
cat puppet, and the next thing you knew, the kids were all laughing and reaching
out so the cat puppet could grab them too. From that day on, every time the
swami's car came through that area, the boys would run to surround his car
and play with the cat puppet. Talk about turning an uncomfortable situation
around to create happiness!
This is what spiritually happy people do - they approach common situations
with uncommon radiance and heartfelt thoughtfulness. Every person on this
planet has had the experience of seeing someone in need that you'd like to
help, and perhaps could help in some small way, or on a temporary level.
You may not have the means to really help the person, or you may know that
helping in that way would only serve to continue the cycle of poverty for
them. You're only one little person with limited finances - you can't just
pour a few thousand billion dollars into uplifting conditions for those in
need around the world. What can one person do?
Perhaps you can still offer a smile, a blessing, or some friendly words.
Or you could break out a cat puppet. Ask your heart for guidance on how you
can create happiness in any situation, according to your own best nature.
...more of this chapter is available in the book, "Secrets of Spiritual Happiness," by Sharon Janis.
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